Away to get your Love bake to the old days

“I miss you so much, but I know how it’s hard to be with you again or even we are being together it might be hard to have a good time like that we had before.

Long time has been passing and I still struggle forgetting you and your love growing day after day. Neither your bad behavior, nor the bad temper could make me hate you. I have been always thinking in how I was badly to could guard my love”.

It seems really psychological, but illogically situation. Who doesn’t leave his love? Does any body think in get his love bake again instead of move on to another situation and seek a new love?

Do we believe it might deserve more than we think in that might be an unpleasant action that might led us to unhappiness again with that one dump us away of his way?

 Let’s go over the negative and positive sides and what would be the conclusion we find? But first did we ask ourselves, what do we want? , And why? If we got that answers, still there is two issues to be considered, first one; are we really serious in getting that love bake again, and would we be able to forget the past for pursuing our purpose and get every thing back on the road for the future.

If so, consider the second issue, which maybe more difficult than first one, as it depends on others.

Are they going through our purpose? And they will totally understanding our needs for them? Do they neglect the past or they will struggle forgetting anything that led us to the situation we are trying to find its solution?

First of all before we hid directly to answer all that questions and find the strategy we shall pursue for achieving our goals. I would like to remember with you some psychologies rules. Such rules may be making you take the first step that is, if you would like to go through or forget and move on the way is full of happiness with some one else as life is short, and nothing deserve to waste our time on some jerks who destroyed our life when we were with them. Let me told you, if that is your opinion so don’t waste time reading that article, don’t waste your time and just move on with bad memory to another friction .

·         Rule number one, there is no rule when you deal with human nature. It’s unlike physics or nature we might find rule can figure out your next step in the experiment you do to figure the behavior of matter or your study’s case. Even scientists are going to tell you that always consider the uncertainty fractions even it are small, as there is always an outsider action. Don’t freak out that to fail but just to be caught in mind. 

·         Rule number two, people don’t plan to fail but they fail to plan, so you have to set up your plans and take care of every small detail that you didn’t see it in the past, set your goals clearly and do your best,

·         That takes us to the third rule, remember that, it’s always about you, if you care, the universal would care, and if you want to achieve something you will do so and universal would help you do what you want… Remember GOD always watches and take care of us, so if that you want is good, he is going to help you through it.

·         Rule number four, we in the life are acting like in the movie and each one of us is his movie star. If you want to have a good movie, so you have to set up your scenes and get a good shoot for you.

·         Rule number five, in dealing with others you better think in that you deal with your mirror picture. In other words if you deal with someone it’s better to be nice and soft talking, as if you shout the image in front of you will shout, and so on any action you will do will be the action reflect on you.

·         Rule number six, don’t be afraid or nervous that might others don’t like hear you or see you again, because that is the main point you should be aware of it; they wouldn’t give you huge or kiss in the first time but you should work on deserve that hugs to be taken. So willing they agree on giving you another chance.

·         Rule number seven Low self-esteem means friction and trouble; put your self in refrigerator, neglect districting, and focus on the main object. Don’t be nervous and let it goes.

Now what is your decision? Get your love bake why do you waste more time? Let me suggest some tricks, don’t make call phone to your ex-love! Don’t send him/her mails, they will read it all but they will not answer you back and then you feel district and that would cost you more friction and trouble.

Remember from your past, what your love like, where can you find him/her often? Don’t go knock his/her door!  Overall, don’t be in rush! Leave sometime for both of you to be calm that leads you to be motivated as you should. Show your actions; let your love feel your change. Put an eye on his reactions. And start your plan. You are your movie star, writer, producer and director, so you should do your best to make a good shoot and prepare your scene before play your role.

            In the First time I don’t suggest you go and talk directly to your love, just to show him you had memories in that place and that is why you are here, for him/her. Perhaps it’s better to go with friends to not give him feelings that you chasing him/her. Don’t let them know you are week, but let them feel; they miss a lot without you. Don’t go overload and focus on actions and reactions, don’t forget, little things play major role and everything follow is absolutely procedures and circumstances, so that impression is important.

My best wishes for all, love isn’t easy to find so best of all to take care not to loose them and then you cry to make them back. Think more in your mind and don’t make the goals over and destroy everything nice you have.

Love is blind but don’t follow that to not be jerk make him self a joke. Better to choose your love carefully and slowly, so take care and never do bad to your love instead of thinking how to get her back to you.

However I write that Article, I am sure I will not use it any way with some one I had known before, but might use it with some one in the future to remember how it would be bad to let my love be angry me and instead of letting her down, I will focus on making a good well relationship

Wish you happy life, that article is general behavior can be applied on any kind of relationship, such as love, friends, work, or business, with a small differences in the producers, I might cover in further articles

Note: the article is general and doesn’t belong to the writer’s feeling, it has been written for education purpose, and helping others who has found no help in such situations.